Spring Recital

Posted by James Eaton on April 9, 2012
A SPRING RECITAL

Organised by the Friends of St Nicolas'



Saturday 5th May 2012, 7.30pm
at St Nicolas Church, Stoneham Lane, SO50 9HS
 

A programme of piano, instrumental and vocal music by Nicola Hubbard and Alison Lewis, accompanied by David Owen-Norris

 
Tickets - £10 (in advance) or £12.50 (on the door)
students/concessions - £7.50
 
Tickets available from Karen Vaughan
Tel: 07717 725124 or click to email
 

From the Rectory

Posted by Mike Sullivan on March 23, 2012

Alleluia! Christ is risen he is risen indeed!  Alleluia!  Can I begin by wishing you all a very joyful Easter!  The season of Spring has returned, with warmer weather, brighter evenings and the whole of creation being renewed with trees and hedgerows all in bud and blossom.  In the Church we celebrate that Christ has overcome the darkness of sin and death and risen from the grave and that in HIM we ourselves are renewed and reborn!

This is the powerful symbolism of the sacrament of Baptism; it is all about death, resurrection and renewal.  It seems to me that this is something to get really excited and joyful about and it lies at the centre of the Christian good news to all humanity.  It is one of the reasons why I am so enthusiastic about the liturgy of Holy Saturday, the day between Good Friday and Easter Day.  Its origins go back to the year 800 when in the Holy Sepulchre in Jerusalem the priest emerged from the tomb in the darkened church bearing the light of Christ and spreading it around.  Later in the Middle Ages the service included the blessing of the baptismal waters and the baptism of many new Christians after they had been preparing for the sacrament in a year of Catechumenate instruction in the faith.  Sinners who had also fallen away from the Church's fellowship repented and were restored to the church's membership.  I sometimes think what an immensely joyful and powerful service that must have been for all involved!  No wonder they all brought bells and rattles to wake the dead and ring out their joy during the singing of the Gloria!

Today we are used to getting everything we want as quickly as possible with minimal effort.  Infant baptisms are arranged over the telephone and often no instruction is given and minimal commitment to weekly worship made.  It has to some extent become a rather empty ceremony with people mouthing promises and declaring positions of faith that have not really been thought through or seriously believed.  Most godparents or the parents themselves are not confirmed.  Sometimes, I have been asked if a Muslim or unbaptised person can act as a godparent.  Our culture has moved so far away from the traditional and profound understanding of the sacrament of Baptism.  But can you imagine what a Baptism would have been like on Easter Eve after a whole year of preparation, prayer and repentance?  When we have had to wait a long time and work towards something we appreciate the immense value of it all the more.  I am sure for those in past ages their Baptism was a life transforming event, highly emotional and full of deep meaning not only for the newly baptised but for the whole Church!  Because before their very eyes resurrection, new life and renewal was becoming a reality.  No wonder people's faith was strong and there was a deep appreciation of the value, relevance and the significance of the Christian faith!

Some weeks ago, the Bishop of Southampton conducted a Vision Day at St Michael's.  We started by sharing a breakfast together and by prayer and he began by getting us all to turn our chairs towards the exit.  This caught some of us out, as the Clergy and Readers and some of the leaders all thought to sit in the front, facing the stage and near the Bishop.  But he moved position, so that the leaders were behind and the members of the congregation were in front.......facing the exit. This was quite a clever symbol.  It reminded us all that the real work in the Kingdom of Heaven was done by ordinary baptised Christians and that our calling was to go out of the church building and into the world.  He said many helpful things, but one of the things that stood out in my mind was to ask us what we thought our church was for?  What is the parish of North Stoneham and Bassett for?  He reminded us of the Grace and generosity of God.  He told us not to be consumed with worries over finances and building maintenance.  All these things sap our joy and enthusiasm.  So what is the Church for?  We need to ask this question over and over, because it will surely help us to discover our vision and get our priorities right.  Then hopefully many of our other concerns will find a remedy.  So a common vision is important and it has to include people not currently of our membership who need to discover the great treasure of faith that we possess.  I believe that being instrumental in helping others to faith will bring renewal, growth and new life to our churches.  It will inspire us and fill us with a deeper appreciation that Christ has risen from the dead.  I wonder if we can learn something from the past and regain something that we have lost.

At the centre of the Christian faith is good and joyful news!  It is news that in Christ we can have new life in all its abundance.  The old order of sin and death is overcome.  All we who share in the death of Christ through the waters of Baptism can share in the Lord's resurrection.  I think more of our time and energy should be spent in helping others to discover or rediscover this truth.

Stephen Holmes

Parish Magazine - March 2012 issue

Posted by Mike Sullivan on March 23, 2012
The magazine can be downloaded in pdf format.  Articles from this issue appear elsewhere on this site.

Copy date for the April issue is 10th March.

Parish Magazine - April 2012 issue

Posted by Mike Sullivan on March 23, 2012
The magazine can be downloaded in pdf format.  Material from this issue may appear elsewhere on this site.

Copy date for the May issue is 10th April. 

Parish Summer Fair

Posted by James Eaton on February 24, 2012
Preparations are well under way for this year's Summer Fair, which will take place in the Rectory garden on Saturday 7th July.

Please click here for further information.

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Parish Magazine - February 2012 issue

Posted by Mike Sullivan on January 27, 2012
The magazine can be downloaded in pdf format.  Articles from this issue appear elsewhere on this site.

Copy date for the March issue is 10th February.

Two Saints Day Centre

Posted by Webmaster on November 30, 2011
The Two Saints Day Centre would like to thank the church and local community so much for the continued support and generous donations of clothes, harvest festival food, toiletries and cash that are regularly donated to our project.  A special thank you goes to the wonderful ladies that knit the practical and pretty blankets.  The support of the community ensures that the things that many of us take for granted are available to those individuals who find themselves without the safety net of friends, family or regular employment. 

The Day Centre provides a safe and welcoming environment where homeless people can access basic services: nourishing hot food, hot showers, laundry facilities, health care and sign posting to other agencies.  Sadly we were subject to severe funding 'cuts' back in April and were told by Southampton City Council that we would not be given any monies from April 2011onwards to keep the Day Centre operational.

Based on this devastating news, Two Saints carried out a complete service review where various options were considered to try and keep the service open.  As part of this review, Southampton City Council PTC agreed to give us back approximately one quarter of the original funding and Two Saints supported this proposal with some additional funds.  This meant that the Day Centre was given a new lease of life and remained open and fully operational but with a reduced staff team and budget.

The reduction in frontline staff, in a project which is extremely challenging and busy, meant that the service provision had to be 'slimmed down' and tailored very much towards a 'basic needs' service.

This meant that we had to 'bolster' the staff team with volunteers from the local community.  This resulted in approximately 10 volunteers being recruited to support the staff team and ensure the service operated at relatively safe levels, - definitely the Big Society in full swing!

We continue to serve about 50 meals per day, which amounts to something in the region of 18,000 meals per year.  Your generous support not only helps us to keep these costs down, but ensures that our clients reap the benefits of eating high quality, fresh produce.

We are now also a 'menu' partner for Maximus - the government's Work programme, which means that we can increase our revenue by assessing and supporting clients to get into work, education or training opportunities through our 'in house' learning service.  This means we not only support our clients but clients who attend the Jobcentre to find work as well

As I have mentioned in previous letters, it is my belief that Day Centres are crucial to breaking the cycle of homelessness.  However, to do so successfully, they must be even more outward looking, and therefore must engage more systematically with the local neighbourhood.  The notion of "inclusiveness" is a central tenet of the Government's "Places of Change" programme, and is a notion which I share.  Hopefully, throughout the next financial year, when funding will be even more precious than before, we will still be able to build on this year's good work where the Day Centre can continue truly to be a place of change and opportunity

James McDermott, Housing, Resettlement and Day Services Manager

Southampton Supporting People

Posted by Webmaster on November 30, 2011
I am writing to thank you for your interest, concern and help towards our residents over the past year.

Since I last wrote to you we have accommodated 370 homeless people.  Our purpose is to take referrals of homeless people from the Street Homeless Prevention Team.  Once admitted to the hostel their housing needs are assessed, their benefits are sorted out if necessary and they are moved on to more suitable longer term accommodation in the wider community.  Most of our residents have problems with alcohol and substance abuse, many of them have mental health issues and some of them have learning and physical disabilities as well. 

Southampton City Council funds the hostel and they want us to aim to move people on after six to eight weeks in the hostel.  As I mentioned last year, sometimes people's problems are so entrenched and complicated that it is just not possible to move them on within this timeframe.  Supporting People have recognised this difficulty and in the next contract for running the hostel, have specified that some 26 (out of our 56) rooms be used for people whose needs are intensive.  People who have intensive housing needs will be able to stay for up to six months at Patrick House before being moved onto more suitable longer term accommodation.  

We have a dedicated part-time Education and Training Coordinator   and when she is at work, our learning zone (the BASE) is open to residents.  She has fitted out a music room for residents.  If we win the new contract she will work with a dedicated Resettlement Worker to encourage and support people to move on from Patrick House and eventually (hopefully) find voluntary and then paid work.

Of course Southampton City Council has been affected by government cuts and this has included our budget.  At present all the projects helping homeless people in Southampton are working to contracts from the Council for three (extendable to five) years.  As these projects come up for renewal & re-tendering, the Southampton Supporting People team are able to tweak the new tenders to meet the Homelessness Strategy in the City.

The main thing of course is that we will be able to continue helping homeless people to become housed appropriately and to improve our services towards the people we try to help.  

Your support and help with the work we are doing is invaluable and very much appreciated by all of us at Patrick House.  We especially would like to thank the ongoing donations of knitted blankets.

The Christmas season is almost upon us again and here at Patrick House we try to ensure that all the residents have a good time.  We have a festive menu during Christmas week and the managers ensure that every single resident gets some presents (often donated).  May I take this opportunity to wish you and all your family a Merry Christmas and a very happy New Year!

Helena Kurczynska, St Patrick's House Manager 

Homelessness Action Week: 29th January to 6th February 2012

Posted by Webmaster on November 30, 2011
The week from 29th January to 6th February is Poverty & Homelessness action week, with 30th January being Homelessness Sunday, and the 6th February being Poverty Sunday.

During this period we are asked to think and pray not only for the people who find themselves in such situations, but  also for the agencies and charities who help and support them in their time of need.  We use the words 'homelessness' and 'poverty' with such ease, that perhaps it would be good to remind ourselves exactly to whom we are referring.

  • People who are sleeping rough
  • People who are seeking sanctuary
  • People on peripheral estates
  • People who cannot afford a home
  • People in debt
  • People on a minimum wage
  • Young homeless people.

The reason that people find themselves in such situations, may or may not have been self inflicted, but who are we to judge?  As Christians we are told to love one another, just as God loves us.

During this special week you may like to use this prayer 

Lord whose kingdom includes everyone
Forgive us for the times we have discounted people who are not like us
Help us to mirror your welcome and love in our churches, schools and communities
And keep us in the knowledge that all people and places count in your eyes.
In Jesus' name, Amen.

D. Gasson

All Saints' Wives Group

Posted by Webmaster on November 29, 2011
Our AGM was held as usual in September, including a sales table in support of our Charity for 2012 - the Motor Neurone Disease Association.  The group remains a close knit, friendly circle of many years standing and it will be celebrating its 50th Anniversary later in the year.  We support Parish events such as the All Saints' Harvest Tea, contributing to shoe boxes to be sent to children overseas and the annual Festive Fayre held at All Saints, amongst others.  

We are always looking to increase our membership.  We are open to everyone, meeting on a Tuesday evening twice a month either in member's homes or in All Saints Church Centre, as in October when Mr. Ian Murray, Editor of the Echo, gave us a very entertaining and informative insight into his career as a journalist.  Later in that month we met at the home of Mary Glennie and enjoyed a couple of light hearted quizzes on London.  More recently in November we gathered for Sunday luncheon at the Stoneham Golf Club with husbands and friends, and later that month Anna Murray collected ideas for topical and unusual readings and carols for our annual service on 13th December, always a popular occasion with a warm welcome extended to everyone, followed by coffee and mince pies.

On January 3rd 2012, a New Year party will be hosted by Frances Sharpen at her home, with an American supper, raffle and catch-up of news.

Later, on January 17th, Marilyn Rossell will give us a talk on her experiences of sailing with disabled people as companion and helper. 

Sheila Dixey